It is that time of year again when we look back on the year with nostalgia and hindsight, and we look forward to the upcoming year with aspirations and resolutions.
I have never been fond of doing either. I avoid most of the lists of the year’s best. Anytime we talk about the “best of” something we are committing an error in logic. “Best” is subjective yet we continually fool ourselves over this “best of” nonsense. You hear it all the time, “best coffee,” “best book,” “best restaurant,” “best phone,” “best president,” “best year,” and the one I find the most laughable “best doctor/lawyer.” Everyone seems to have the “best” doctor or lawyer. “Best” only means something if there is exhaustive comparison and contrast, which face it, most of us don’t do. This all reminds me of an episode of Penn and Teller’s Bullshit. It is called The Best from Season 3 and it examined our obsession with the “best of” everything and debunked the hype behind all of the fascination. So, nostalgia and hindsight and fascination with all that made up the year especially the year’s “best” is irrational drama that doesn’t do us much good.
Then there is our obsession with resolutions and dreams for the upcoming year. Again, most of us will never follow through and finish any such resolutions. They are a nice idea and that is all. If you need to wait until the New Year to start something then you are already behind. Why can’t you start today? Why does such an endeavor have to wait and begin on January 1st? Do something now. For more information backing up the ridiculousness of resolutions and motivation see Mel Robbins and her Why Motivation is Garbage.
You’re Never Going to Feel Like It
Sentiment for the past 365 days and blind hope for the next 365 days is a silly concept. It can be effective to look back and use the observations you notice in the past to make adjustments in order to help and improve future outcomes, but the way we do it as a culture around New Year’s time is really nothing more than mindless conformity as an effort to keep the status quo going. Question things. Think. You don’t have to be told what was good for the year. And, you don’t have to follow a line into the next calendar year. New Year’s hype just robs you of your own thought and ability to take advantage of opportunity now. Do your own evaluations and skip the resolutions and motivation and just do something now, today.
I wrote this simple, little poem in response to New Year’s resolutions and all that is the status quo during this time of year.
be meek,
be safe,
inside the bubble of the status quo
you’ll be alive
you’ll get by
but you’ll hardly be living.
Until next year, good reading.